Monday, October 15, 2018

General Conference Week? (Week Шістдесят)

Everyone talked about how great General Conference was last week, and I was just sitting there telling everyone that I haven't watched it yet, but it sounds great! haha Well, I'm pleased to announce, that I've seen all the sessions now, a few in English and a few in Ukrainian. General Conference week is a week late in Eastern Europe. Even though I understand it in Ukrainian, I get much more out of General Conference in English because I can just focus on the spirit and not the language, so I'll for sure watch the Sunday sessions again in English. Before my mission, I did not appreciate General Conference at all, but after serving for a over a year now, I've come to realize the importance of General Conference and how we can listen to modern revelation given to us through Prophets and Apostles. I know for certain that everything said during conference was true and that President Russell M. Nelson is a living prophet today, called to direct this Church, The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, (for sure not Mormons haha) and he receives revelation for us. All in all, if you haven't watched conference, I highly recommend it, you'll learn something new. 

This past week was pretty grand. We didn't have anything special go on, which can make for a boring email, but it makes for a good week to focus on missionary work. The biggest thing that happened this past week was with our amazing investigator, Vika. We had a great lesson this past week, where we read D&C 6 with her. We focused on the Holy Ghost, trying to help her understand that the wonderful feelings that she has when she reads the Book of Mormon, are from the Spirit and they are confirming to her that the Book of Mormon is true. In short, the lesson was super powerful and we all felt the Holy Ghost. Near the end of the lesson, we had her bear her testimony and she shared how her life has changed ever since she's starting investigating and she's so much more happy. Finally, to finish off the lesson, we invited her to be baptized again on the 3rd of November, and she said YESSS!!!! She just wants to talk to her family and hopefully they'll support her in this choice, but if all goes well with that, she should get dunked on the 3rd!! I've learned so much from working with her, and I'm glad to have this experience in my life.

Anyway, the rest of my week was fun too. We had a finding activity in Center and we drew the plan of salvation in chalk so that everyone could read and see it. It was super fun and we had some good conversations from that. My chalk art has really improved over the course of my mission haha. We also went out and did service for a member here in Rivne. We dug some more holes, picked some carrots and ate some interesting food. Here in Ukraine, they have this dish called Holadets, and I've mentioned it before, but it's basically salty jello with pieces of meat in it. Most missionaries, including myself, do not like it, so when the food was out and we were eating, I pulled the classic Utah missionary move when they're on their third dinner appointment. When the member wasn't looking, I threw the holadets in my pocket and magically my food was gone. Sadly though, I didn't have plastic baggies, so my pocket got all gross and I'm gonna have to wash it. But all in all, this week was awesome. I love serving with Elder Matua and, even though I'm his trainer, I'm learning so much from him. Have a great week everyone and talk to you later!
Старійшина McGrath

D&C 6:14-24 read and ponder these words. If you've ever wondered if you've felt the spirit, read these verses

Contacting a tank
Train station picture!!
With Elder Matua at service 
Cleaning some carrots 
Fall in Rivne 
 Plan of Salvation Chalk drawing
Interesting pic of me contacting haha

Sunday, October 7, 2018

The Typical Missionary Week (Week П'ятдесят дев'ять)

Well, this was a pretty grand week on the mission field. Not a ton of crazy things happened so I'll try to keep this at least somewhat interesting. One of the biggest things that happened this past week was exchanges. I had the opportunity to serve with Elder Volkov for a day, and he's a super good missionary. He's from Donetsk, Eastern Ukraine, so his first language is actually Russian, but he also grew up sometimes hearing Ukrainian, so he understands both fluently. He just prefers and was called to speak Russian, so that made us a Zebra companionship for a day. haha I think I had my first full lesson in Russian, I didn't speak Russian, I spoke Ukrainian, but everyone else on the lesson spoke straight Russian, which made it hard to understand at times, but I was still in the conversation and got the gist of most things. All in all, the day went really well, we had a few lessons, both with investigators and members, and went out to get some pretty good pizza. Nothing better than an exchange when you do all three parts of missionary work, studies, finding and teaching. Glad I got to know Elder Volkov better this past week.

The rest of the week was pretty grand. On our way to the church one day, a drunk person stopped us. Right next to the church, there is a small park, and occasionally, people will just chill there and drink alcohol, which is super sad to see. But this man stopped us and told us in English, "Hey! Give me five Boxen!" haha Funny thing is that he's asked me this at least five times, he just sees us missionaries walking by and knowing that we're Americans will ask for five dollars. Just he doesn't know English and mixed up the words boxen and bucks. Anyways, after talking to him for a minute or so and telling him that we can't give him money, he first asks for 10 boxens and in the end he starts to walk away and finishes by saying this in English, "maybe, maybe, you'll live." To me, that was funny, not scary, and I"m sure he won't remember that the next day. Small experiences like that make a mission interesting and I don't want you to get the wrong impression of Ukrainians. Most Ukrainians are amazing and I love them so much, just sometimes there are some interesting people that are sometimes inebriated and make for some pretty good stories. 

Anyway, to finish off, a weekly update on Vika. She's doing very, very well. This past week, we talked about the Word of Wisdom with her and she accepted it all. She also told us that she wants to fast with everyone on Sunday, and from that point on, she will try to stop drinking coffee. She's just amazing. Also, we had a lesson planned on Saturday, but she called us up a few hours before the lesson and told us that her Dad had just been taken to the emergency room, and she needed to go with him, which makes perfect sense. So Sunday rolled around and I honestly didn't expect her to show up since her Dad was in the hospital, but she did!! We talked to her for a bit, and her dad is doing fine, he's out of the hospital now, and she seemed to be super excited to be at church and be fasting with everyone. Church this past Sunday was wonderful and the members and really getting to know Vika and friend shipping her which is amazing to see. Honestly, member friend shipping can be a big part of conversion. All in all, she is amazing and I'm super glad that I could meet her. Anyway. the rest of the week was full of contacting, teaching, studies, and doing other ways of finding. We found a few new investigators this past week and I'm excited to keep working with them and help them progress in the gospel. Sadly, I haven't watched much of conference yet, should watch more this week. Have a great week, and talk to you all later!
Старійшина McGrath

Alma 32:16 read and ponder this verse. Develop that Christlike attribute of Humility!!

Watching the start of General Conference 
Listing to a member, Sister Timochko, sing. She's a super, duper good singer 
With Elder Matua at Gusto a super good restuarant
With Elder Matua again at another restaurant 
Out doing some service!!

Monday, October 1, 2018

Apples for Dayss (Week П'ятдесят вісім)

Well, another great week in the books. This week was pretty normal if I may say. Elder Matua's first full week in the mission field and we did everything. Probably the biggest thing that we did this week happened on Saturday. We went out to one of the members houses in the villages and helped a little bit in his garden and it was super fun! Basically, we spent most of the time picking apples and digging holes. If you remember, a few months ago, we went out to a members house and we dug some holes and put a bunch of apples in the ground to help fertilize it for the next summer; well, we did that again. Also, this time, we took super long sticks with claws at the end and grabbed apples from the tree. That was super fun, and unlike most claw machine games that you plan on, pretty much every time I used it, I got a prize, a nice green and red apple. That was quite interesting, we made a competition out of it and we all tried to grab the highest apple on the tree, luckily, I had the height advantage there. Anyway, we spent the whole morning there and picked tons and tons of apples and went home with a few bags of them as well. After service though, we also went out to another village and visited Mikola, the recent convert that I worked with, and taught his kids!! Right now, the parents are both baptized and we're working with both the kids, who are both eleven, to make that choice to be baptized and then we'll fully have another family here in Rivne. I love Mikola and he is still doing super well!! Pray for the kids so that they'll have desire to enter the waters of baptism!

Anyway, other than that, it was a pretty normal week full of lessons, contacting, and studies. For game night this week, we did fear factor again, which went pretty good. Luckily, the worst drink that I had to try was only cheese sauce and a few candy bars, still pretty bad, but for sure could be worse. Sunday was a pretty grand day. Vika, one of our progressing investigators, was able to make it to church again and she loved it. She stayed for all three hours and got to know even more members!! This past week, we had a really powerful lesson with a member here, and taught her The Gospel of Jesus Christ. We talked about baptism and she still is scared, which is understandable. But Sister Timochko, the member who helped us, shared a super powerful testimony of her conversion and how even though she was scared, she took that step of faith and then God took over, life was even better after baptism. Now, as we go into this next week, we're gonna put our focus on helping her develop that faith and have the bigger desire to get dunked. 

The rest of Sunday was pretty grand as well. Since I'm in the branch presidency, I had a meeting with President Bondar before Church, had three hours of church, then helped do finances for the branch, and then talked to President a little longer about all the members here in Rivne and what we want to do to help them. In total, I think I was with President Bondar for around six hours. That was a really good experience. Now I have the opportunity to see more fully how the Church is run and how the leaders in our Church really do and can receive revelation for everyone that they have keys for. President Bondar is an amazing Branch President and a great example for me. Anyway, I hope you enjoyed this dryer letter home, have a great week all and talk to you later!
Старійшина McGrath

Proverbs 18:12 Read and ponder these words. Be humble and blessings will come out the wazoo
Service selfie with the member!
Selfie after a finding activity with Matua
Super good pizza!
Average selfiee :)
Tunnel of Love sign piccc 
At the Tunnel of Love!!
                  Nametag at the Tunnel of Love
Picking apples!!

Monday, September 24, 2018

The Kid (Week П'ятдесят сім)

Well, he's officially here and I'm officially a Dad now. My child is sitting right next to me, writing home to his family after a wonderful week in both Kiev and Rivne. His name is Elder Matua and is super cool. He's from Lehi, Utah, but with a last name as cool as that, it makes you wonder, where are his parents from? His Mom is from California and his dad is from Samoa!! Also, Elder Matua and I are pretty dang similar. For the first time on my mission, I have a companion that likes to play GOLF!!! haha His main sport was Rugby, which is super sick, but he also played on the High School Golf team which is super awesome. Plus, Elder Matua really likes the Office, which is the greatest show ever. Life as a trainer has been pretty interesting so far, we've done just about everything these past few days to help him get used to the missionary life. We've contacted, picked some more potatoes for a member, taught some lessons to both members and investigators, had some meetings, and Elder Matua had the chance to share his testimony during Sacrament meeting. All in all, Elder Matua is a super fun person, and already a good missionary and I'm really excited to train him and serve with him over these next few transfers!

Anyways, our week. We went out to Kiev to pick up our trainees and have a little training session with them to help them understand what a missionary is and what they exactly do. After that, we head back home to the wonderful city of Rivne and he got situated there. Throughout the rest of the week, we had a lesson pretty much every day, did some contacting, (had some good success with that) and had a great English Practice and Church service. One of our lessons that we had was with our investigator named Vika, who is amazing. We found her through English Practice and she was really receptive to one of the Spiritual thoughts that we had. So we taught her the restoration lesson a few weeks ago and she was not the biggest fan of it. She couldn't believe that Joseph Smith was really a Prophet of God and he saw God and Jesus Christ. But we challenged her to read and pray about the Book of Mormon every day, and guess what she did. After a week or two of doing that, we had an amazing lesson this past week with her. She shared her thoughts about the Book of Mormon and how she had a really spiritual experience one night while reading it when she just started to cry tears of joy. She has felt the spirit in her life and now she is starting to realize that. She also told us how much happier she has been since we had first met, which just strengthens my testimony. The Book of Mormon really does change lives, if you sincerely read and pray about it. In our last lesson, Elder Matua invited her to be baptized, (what a wonderful Elder) and she said she's a bit afraid. But we'll be working with her and I know that if she continues to read, pray, and come to Church, she'll soon have a big desire to enter the waters of baptism.

Anyway, that was pretty much the week. The only other big thing that happened was that I got called into the Branch Presidency here in Rivne. Lately, missionaries have been called as the 2nd counselor to the Branch President and I was just called to that this past Sunday. It's going to be quite interesting, I've never been in a Branch Presidency before, excited to see what the future holds for me. Anyway, have a great week everyone and I'll talk to you next week! 
Старійшина McGrath

Isaiah 41:10 Read and ponder these words. God is always with us, no matter what!

At service with Elder Matua
Bowling on P-day
On the train with the other trainers!
Pic of the temple, plus badge 
Another one of the temple
With my kid, Elder Matua 
With my cousin, Elder Jensen
 Super cool rainbow!!

Monday, September 17, 2018

Big City and Pregnancy (Week П'ятдесят шість)

Yeah, this was a pretty crazy week. I'll try to cover all the best things and keep you all interested and wanting more info. First of all to explain the title, I have to say that this past week, we went to Kiev for Missionary Leadership Council and for exchanges with the Assistants. There, in Kiev, we received our transfer calls, and I'm gonna be a dad!!! haha For the next two transfers I'll be training a new missionary fresh out of the MTC. That means I'm gonna have to teach him to be a missionary and how to speak Ukrainian, I'm super excited and it should be fun! Also, I didn't expect to stay in Rivne, but since I'm training, and President Kumferman doesn't want to white-wash a new area, I'll be staying in Rivne for a sixth transfer. All in all, I'm excited for the future. The opportunity I had to serve as a Zone Leader these past few transfers have been amazing and I've learned a ton, but I'm excited for some change and now I'll have the chance to 100% focus on helping my greenie develop into the best missionary, and help all of our investigators prepare for baptism.

Anyhow, let's talk about some of the good things that happened this past week. As I said, this past week, we spent 3 days in Kiev, which was super good and a lot time to be out of our area. MLC was great and we redid the Standards of Excellence since 3 missions just combined a few transfers ago. I'm a big fan of the new ones and I feel like missionaries will now put a big focus on achieving these goals because they're not easy to get, but they're reachable. After MLC, instead of heading back home to Rivne, we took the Metro out to the AP's area for exchanges. Exchanges went super good and I had the chance to serve with Elder Galmeister for a day. Honestly, it was cool to serve in Kiev for a day, it's pretty different than any area in Western Ukraine. Kiev is so stinking big, all the buildings are super tall and there are a ton of people and they have a metro system. With the language, everyone there speaks both, more people speak Russian and usually it's their default language, but if you speak to them in Ukrainian, they'll usually respond in Ukrainian. We met with this man, and he said he'd try to speak Ukrainian to us, but he spoke more Russian than Ukrainian, so that was an interesting lesson. In short, a super good trip out to the big city of Kiev. 

Finally, to finish off the email, I want to talk about our super successful activity we did this past week back in Rivne. With the help of a super good member, Bohdan, we put together a Mexican night. Basically, we made tacos, fajitas, salsa, guacamole, and anything else Mexican you can think of. Also, we (including Bohdan) came up with some music fun games to play such as limbo, cookie face race, (put a cookie on your forehead and try to get it into your mouth without hands) and we did some just dance. All in all, it was a very successful activity, we had over forty people show up and I got to wear a fake mustache. Members from the branch, less-actives, investigators, and a good amount of people from English Practice we able to talk, mingle, and have a great time together. It was super fun and super tasty. Also, at the end, Bohdan made a piñata and people then took turns hitting it, until the pinata broke and all the candy fell out. For sure going to do something like this again and hopefully we'll get an even better turnout next time. Really, this week just flew by and I'm excited for the next, get to meet my greenie soon. Wish me luck! Have a great week everyone, and talk to you later!
Старійшина McGrath

D&C 61:36 Read and ponder these words. God is always there for us

With President Bondar after Family Home Evening
At the Stake Center in Kiev, feel like I'm in America
At the Temple after MLC
In the Metro in Kiev
Kiev, city of big buildings
English Practice squad 
Mexican Night 
Games at Mexican Night 
With Bohdan, after Mexican Night. he's the best!

Monday, September 10, 2018

A Few Exchanges (Week П'ятдесят п'ять)

This past week was pretty grand if i may say so myself. We didn't do any service, at least I didn't, but we ended having two exchanges. Our first exchange was with the the District Leader companionship in Khmelnitskiy, and we had a pretty successful exchange. I had the opportunity to serve with my trainer, Elder Baxter, for one more day, before he heads home at the end of this transfer. On exchanges, we met with a new investigator from English Practice named Vika and she seems really promising. She's kind of a hippy and at the moment thinks that love is the most important thing and that reincarnation is a thing, but we had a good restoration lesson with her and hopefully she starts to read and develops an understanding of our wonderful gospel. Plus, she's super good at volleyball and she said that for her age group, she's going to be playing volleyball in the olympics which is super duper cool. On our exchanges, we also had a successful finding activity where we put the question, "How does God answer your prayers?" and talked to people about what they believe prayer is and really how it is a converstation between people and our loving Heavenly Father. All in all, it was a really successful day, and I'm going to miss my mission Dad when he goes home in just over a week now. 

My other exchange was with the Elders in Lutsk. This exchange wasn't exactly planned, just last week we felt the prompting that we have an exchange and so we called them up and set it up. I had the chance to serve with Elder Volkov for a day and the exchange was actually super sucessful. We also found a new investigator, Oleksander. He was super cool, and was interested in the Book of Mormon, sadly though, he didn't make it to Church on Sunday. Elder Volkov is pretty cool, he's from Eastern Ukraine and really likes to crack jokes and have a good time. In missionary work, sometimes people turn into robots where they just focus 100% on the work and don't have as much fun. Elder Volkov is a good example of balancing the two, you should work hard, especially when you're on the clock, but also find time to crack a joke and lighten the mood when times are tough or you just need a pick me up. I really enjoyed serving with him and I learned a lot from both of these exchanges.

Other than that, the week was pretty normal. We had a successful game night where we went out and played frisbee. There I met this super cool girl, who is interested in the gospel. Also, on Friday, we had English Practice and a bunch of new people showed up which always makes it more fun, and a lot more successful because you can talk to new people about the gospel instead of the same people every single time. All in all, this past week was successful. We found five new investigators and one of them seems very promising. Slavik was a member referral and he already has a testimony of the gospel. The only thing holding him back from entering the waters of baptism are his parents that are against the church; so, over the next few weeks we want to help him build that confidence and realize that the gospel is literally the greatest thing on this earth, and that the gospel builds families, not tears them down. Anyway, have a great week all. Next week should be interesting, going to Kyiv again, talk to you next week!
Старійшина McGrath

Moroni 6:5-6 Read and ponder these words. Why do you go to Church?
A super cool and patriotic Church in Rivne
With our investigator Gregory, before he left to Poland for a year, sad to say goodbye
A member who leaves on her mission next week to Nigeria, Elfie
With Elder Baxter in Exchanges
English Practice 
With Brother Ovcharuk before Church
Elder Wonson and me at the zoo.
At the zoo for P-day

Monday, September 3, 2018

Wild Week in Western Ukraine (Week П'ятьдесят-чотири)

Well, another great week in the books. A bunch of things happened this past week, so hopefully I can cover all of it and hopefully you can be interested to read through the entire email, no matter how long it is. Let's jump into it though. When I think of this past week, I think of potatoes. We had the opportunity twice to go out a village and help different members pick their potato fields. It was not easy nor fun sometimes but it was a great experience. We picked around 70 or 80 bags of potatoes all together and at the end, my back was hurting pretty bad from bending over so much and I got a blister on my finger from picking up so many. To be honest though, I did feel like a true Ukrainian when we were out doing that though, which made the experience a whole lot better. Five months ago, I planted some of those potatoes, and luckily I stayed long enough in Rivne to pick those potatoes this past week. Also, this past week we had the chance to help someone else move some furniture. We fit some couches through places that I never would've imagined possible. I guess I learned there that when there is a will, there is a way. 

Other than that, this past week we had exchanges. I had the opportunity to go and serve with Elder Cluff for a day. He's been on his mission for around 9 months now and is a super good missionary. We ended up having a few lessons, went out and did some contacting, and had a really successful exchange. One interesting story happened though that will make this exchange one of my favorites. He killed Misha the mouse. About a week ago, Elder Cook was doing some exercises and all the sudden he sees a mouse run across the floor. So we start freaking out because neither of us like mice and we don't really know what to do. We tried setting up a homemade mouse trap and it didn't do anything. Finally, when I was on exchanges with Elder Cluff, the night he came and stayed at my apartment, we saw the mouse again. It took off from under the fridge and under the counter. Once Elder Cluff saw that, he was determined to kill it. He literally too a knife and threw it under the counter and somehow killed the mouse with that. The biggest blind shot ever worked out and I can't tell you how happy I was to see that gross mouse die haha. Our apartment is 100% better mice free. 

Anyway, that was some of the bigger things that happened this past week. Other than that, we did some finding, had some lessons, and did other missionary work. Finally, Sunday rolled around and a few interesting things happened. First of all, Mikola went to the temple this past week and had a grand time. He did baptisms for the dead for his father and loved it so much!! He's just the best recent convert ever. Plus, he had the opportunity to pass the sacrament for the first time yesterday and did an awesome job. He's such a stud. Since it was fast and testimony meeting, he also got up and shared his conversion story and how that has blessed his life, I love him so much. 

Anyway, to finish off the week, we had one more crazy thing happen. Elder Wonson and I were out doing a finding activity in center when we got a call from the other Elders saying that we need to run back to the Church. We ran back and found out that some guy threw a rock through our window. A drunk guy chucked a rock and broke a few of our windows. Luckily though we had double panned windows so it only broke one window and not both. But it was still super sad and a bit annoying. The police and a few members came and took the guy away; he didn't run away, he just sat there because he wanted to go to jail. Anyhow, we came to find out as well that he had beef with the Vidvaga church. Another church on the other side of our building, just he mixed them up and we took the short end of the stick. Well, that's a story I won't forget soon, have a great day everyone and serve someone this week. 
Старійшина McGrath



Read the infinite Power of Hope. Read and ponder that talk by Elder Uchtdorf. Super good talk about hope.

Picking potatoes
I didn't know the pats went back in Time and won Super Bowl 46
Destroyed the mouse
At the field for service 
After picking the potatoes 
With Elder Wonson picking potatoes 
Broken window... 
At the fort in Dubo
At the fort still 

Albatross (Week СТО)

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